The Lone Wolf

The scene for this story is a liveaboard in Southeast Asia, which, on most of its itineraries, would offer guests four dives a day and imposed a 60-minute maximum dive time for each dive. Divers were also asked to stay together on a dive, and follow their guide. There were 12 divers and three guides, so each guide would usually be leading four divers.

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On this particular trip, one of the divers, Brian, made it very clear that he did not like these policies. He would often swim some distance away from the group, complaining afterwards that their bubbles kept getting in his photographs. Sometimes, he would swim in completely the opposite direction from the group, on the basis, as he would subsequently explain, that the guide had been taking them all the “wrong” way. And, on every dive, he would just refuse to come up at the 60-minute time limit. When he did eventually surface, he would boast about how much air he still had left.

He tried to cajole other divers to join him in his one-man protest action but was unsuccessful. They could all appreciate the safety advantages of staying together and also understood how the 60-minute policy helped the liveaboard fit four dives, travel time between sites, three meals and tank filling into an all-too-short tropical day. They pointed out to Brian how his insistence on extending his dive was causing them to fry in the sun on board the tender while they waited for him, but all he did was suggest hats and sunscreen.

The other divers eventually just shrugged their shoulders and nicknamed Brian “the lone wolf.” The liveaboard crew tried to reason with him, but he would just become aggressive and point out angrily that he had paid for his trip and so was entitled to dive in whatever way he wished. He threatened that he would give them a bad review if they tried to ban him from diving. They too eventually gave up arguing with him.

Rough seas

One afternoon, halfway through the trip, after a dive on a reef wall in relatively rough seas, all the other divers surfaced and were back in the boat before 60 minutes were up, as the conditions had not been very comfortable underwater. Things were not much better on the surface either, with the tender buffeted by heavy waves. The lone wolf, as usual, was not with them. Nobody was concerned, as this was normal. Brian would not be denied the diving time he deserved just because the conditions were poor. At least, the sun was not burning down upon them. The sky was grey and cloudy, just like the sea.

It was only after they had been rocked and rolled by the swell for almost half an hour that the boat crew sensed that something might not be well and that even the lone wolf should have surfaced by now. They began a search, but they did not find him. After a while, they abandoned the effort briefly to return the divers, some of whom had been seasick, to the mother boat. Then they went back out to search for him again. The lone wolf had become the boy who cried wolf, and the other divers wondered if they would ever see him again.

After almost two hours, just as darkness was falling, a sharp-eyed crew member saw what looked like a small orange buoy in the fading light. As the tender approached, they saw it was a partially inflated safety sausage and, to their relief, there was a diver attached to it, waving frantically. Brian was unharmed but looked pale and scared as they helped him into the tender. Of course, by the time they got him back to the liveaboard, he had recovered his usual bluster and was furious with the crew and his fellow divers for losing him in the first place and then not finding him more quickly.

During the remainder of the trip, however, he did dive much closer to the group and would surface with them on time every time.

The blame game

This sort of scenario is all too common in diving, and stories like this divide opinion. Some might attach blame to the liveaboard crew for not enforcing their policies more strictly. Some might feel that they had got their priorities twisted and that, no matter how objectionable Brian was, after having given him a number of warnings, they should have stopped him diving, let him off the boat at the nearest port and refunded the cost of his trip.

After all, he was causing his fellow divers inconvenience, and he was messing up the boat’s schedule. For all his miraculously low air-consumption, he was not diving in what would conventionally be seen as a safe manner. Stopping him from diving would have meant a safer, more pleasant trip for everyone else on board, simply at the expense of a refund and the risk of a bad review.

Others might agree with Brian and might argue that he had paid for the trip and so should be able to dive any way he liked. “He is obviously a good diver and it’s a free world,” they might say.

What makes a good diver

One thing is indisputable. Brian is not a good diver. An attribute essential to being a good diver is concern for the well-being of others. This is a quality that all good divers either possess naturally or have learnt through experience. Whether you like to dive solo, with a buddy or with a group of divers, diving is a team sport. You are part of a team. Some of the team are underwater, some are on the surface, some are back on land, or in this case, the mother boat. The concept also extends to the diving world as a whole and to rescue teams who are called out to search for divers when they go missing at sea, in lakes or in caves.

Just as you hope that the people who take you diving have your best interests in mind, so should you, as a sport diver, keep their interests as well as those of your fellow divers in mind. You have a responsibility to others in the diving community to keep yourself safe so that they do not have to put themselves in harm’s way, or even just put themselves out, to search for you or rescue you. Many of the most important dive safety rules, such as “one up, all up,” are anchored in this idea.

For the sake of a few more minutes underwater, Brian felt that he was justified in flouting the dive operation’s rules, ignoring their interests completely in favour of his own, putting the crew under pressure and making his fellow divers suffer while they waited for him.

Behaviour like this may sometimes seem harmless but, as in this case, it can lead to potentially disastrous scenarios. When, at least partly because of his obstinacy, Brian got himself into difficulty, he was probably quite happy that the crew and his fellow divers nevertheless had his interests at heart and kept searching for him for as long as they did. Not that he would ever admit it, of course. ■

This issue's column was adapted from a chapter in Simon Pridmore’s latest book, Scuba Exceptional: Become the Best Diver You Can Be.